Do empaths have empathy?

what-is-empathyEmpathy… and empaths. Is the empathy we talk about in the world as a good thing and what empaths have the same? Empathy as psychologists have it, is not the capacity to feel another’s feeling as your own. That is … Continue reading

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Why it is so hard to care, why is it so hard to be good to yourself?

victor_labouCaring One of my students bought the subscriber special deal last night… but after paying, she didn’t go and get it, so I had to do it manually for her. She said when I brought this up: “My daughter was … Continue reading

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Republished: The new capacities of caring, respect and regard

The capacity of caring is new to humanity. On September 4 less than a handful of people had it. So what is this capacity that we give lip service to, but we lie when we do that? Let me tell … Continue reading

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What is the connection between respect and appreciation?

jumping-into-pool-without-preparationWhat is the connection between respect and appreciation? Both respect and appreciation are spiritual capacities… states of being. I am having a lot of insights lately. Of course, it was predictable: I am running an experimental workshop: it is driving … Continue reading

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Can you learn the skill of negotiation?

negotiation-skills-mapWhat is the relationship between skills, learning new skills, and capacities? All my life I have been puzzled why perfectly normal people fail at even understanding concepts from certain things, like distinctions, from communication, negotiation, empathy, caring, team work, leadership, … Continue reading

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Empathy… Life’s most important capacity to master

empathy-lifes-most-essential-skillIn my inquiries, I find that more and more capacities that I’ve assumed we all have, it turns out, we don’t. The question that has been puzzling me is why certain ethnic groups that were persecuted at any one time … Continue reading

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I got a nasty attachment this morning… nice people… appreciation capacity

the unwashed hands... the origin of most of our attachments that are killing usI see the so-called distance healers the same as the people who use coat hangers to perform an abortion. They may kill the child, they may kill both. They pretend to be on your side, but really they are all … Continue reading

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I found a missing capacity. I am now clear why you are not doing your spiritual work

flowers-or-weeds-chooseOK, if you have found yourself not being willing, or not being able to do the practices, or keep doing them: this article is for you. I have been studying learning styles, thinking styles, teaching methods to make my teaching … Continue reading

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A reader asks: Isn’t inventing a being the same as pretending?

Hi Sophie – I need some clarifications .. Isn’t inventing a being the same as pretending? Is the goal to have the being be the ‘inventing being’? ..someone who can be any being? i.e caring, happy, courageous etc. What kind … Continue reading

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Are you a nice person? Let’s take a look at that

pretending-i-am-a-nice-personIs it fear? Or is it unwillingness? The human DNA isn’t a DNA for kindness, caring, or any of the “nice” stuff we are supposed to be. In fact, it will take changing the DNA to go to the next … Continue reading

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