Internal and external barriers to growth, changing, success, the good life

Is that a distraction? Does that get me closer to my target? One of the big issue I see with people is this: You have big desires… but you don’t consider doing the things you have to do to attain … Continue reading

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Internal and external barriers to growth, changing, success, the good life

Unflinchingly

i-start-counting-when-it-hurtsIt took quite a bit for me to learn that trying to outwardly act like a Buddha won’t make me a Buddha. The above line is from one of my students. Really smart guy, isn’t he? And I bet you … Continue reading

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Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is selling something

With some movies I ponder for years why I liked it. One of these movies is The Princess Bride. Why do I love The Princess Bride? Why do I watch it a few times a year, especially when my energy … Continue reading

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Slow down. Most things, maybe everything that is valuable is invisible when things are fast.

going-nowhere-fastThe psychologist, Paul Ekman. who discovered the micro expressions slowed down the film to see the emotion that gave the suicidal woman’s despair away. Slowing down your reactions will show you your real emotions… so you know, so you know … Continue reading

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Slow down. Most things, maybe everything that is valuable is invisible when things are fast.

I almost screwed up the date completely… almost.

moon-calendarI am talking about the timing of the Big Power… coming down. But how did it happen? How could I screw up like this? OK, fair enough. Let’s look how… I didn’t do enough research and the power has been … Continue reading

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Will you Take Action Toward a Goal or Dream?

When I watch or coach people: most people quit… first they pretend to be still in… but they stopped generating that goal or that dream. Brandon Burchard, in this video and pdf give you a tool to evaluate where you … Continue reading

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Is there no rhyme or reason in your life?

no-rhyme-or-reasonBringing rhyme and reason to your life, to your activities is an important topic, maybe the most important for you, so please makes sure you read it until it makes sense. The article is a stream of consciousness one… I … Continue reading

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As long as you are interested in the “what” and not the “how” you remain the same

If you go about it the same way you have always gone, you’ll get the same results: not much. I just got an insight I want to share. There are all kinds of valid sayings that, as it turns out, … Continue reading

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Another role of negative emotions is…

I talked about negative emotions as early warning signals. But negative emotions have another function: they are placeholders, reminders of unfinished business. We go through life, and sustain injuries to our bodies, our self-esteem, our pride. All or us. And … Continue reading

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A different way to look at priorities

prioritiesI just had a flash… A big bang. We all have projects, and we all give it lip service, but don’t really do it… don’t really pursue our projects. So, when a student of mine said: she needed to set … Continue reading

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A different way to look at priorities