How you have trained yourself to be a self-hating, powerless puppet

confessionConsciousness, Source, is using me and my life, and makes it my work to map out the human condition. It’s been consciously so for about five years now. When something, a sneaky undertow could not be seen on other people, … Continue reading

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Never really say no?

Saying no feels rude. Any type of no. Setting your boundaries, hanging up the phone, saying you are busy… Even when no one knows you have a hard time saying no. How do I know? I just observed myself. The … Continue reading

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Three groups… three outcomes… which one do you belong to?

arrogance-weaknessThe most popular image I have on Instagram says: Arrogance is weakness disguised as strength. Now, why this is worth writing about? Because it is the tip of the iceberg of something really important. We have spoken about the selfish … Continue reading

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Why can’t you make things happen? Why can’t you make your life work…

integrity firstYou’ll hate me for this… but hate me as much as you want, this is why: Your integrity is shot. Without integrity nothing works. Sounds very general, and definitely doesn’t seem to have anything to do with you: you are … Continue reading

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Do you feel that no one listens, and your contribution is not valued? This solves that…

p2xPzmtI found this article in my inbox. I think it is perfect for what I teach… So let’s see how it applies… The article is about hypnosis secrets: a way to manipulate others through hypnotic language… I don’t recommend it. … Continue reading

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The 40 golf ball method of growing yourself and your life

How 40 Golf Balls Can Make You a Better Entrepreneur I found the following article on Linkedin. And I thought that publishing it, without editing it is a good idea, because the lesson the guy teaches, is showing where and … Continue reading

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Are you the gift, or are you the gift giver? Do “they” feel they need to give you a gift?

The-Best-GiftsI was looking at Christmas this morning and I saw something that I had never seen before. Your relationships can be described in terms of gift giving and receiving. For some people, in your life, you may be a gift. … Continue reading

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How, what you don’t know that you don’t know, is biting you… and you can’t see what bit you without help

youDontKnowYouDontKnowHow, what you don’t know that you don’t know, is biting you… and you can’t see what bit you without help If I asked you what it is that you don’t know that you don’t know… no matter how long … Continue reading

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Locked in/Locked out… another symptom of scarcity thinking and how to return to freedom

yes-no-maybeOne of the phenomenon I notice with people is that they do not have moves in communication. This comes from the binary way of “thinking”… either or, one or the other, yes or no. One area where this is detrimental … Continue reading

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Liar liar pants of fire

cc0fce7485979e5587c2a73292faf2afSome people lie more than others. But all people lie… Lying by commission and lying by omission. Facebook is nauseatingly full of lies and liars. You lie to your loved ones and you lie to yourself. You lie because it … Continue reading

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