If I see you as beautiful… will you start to see yourself as beautiful?

 

If I see you as beautiful… will you see yourself as beautiful? If I see you as magnificent, great, awesome… will you see yourself like I do? Muscle test and my experience says: no. The most beautiful women spend hours … Continue reading

Visit link:

If I see you as beautiful… will you start to see yourself as beautiful?

A good method to find yourself and know yourself… your core

 

I often catch myself stingy… if that is really what the beingness is Some 30 years ago I started a magazine. I didn’t want to put my own picture in the magazine, so I put a woman’s picture there who … Continue reading

Link:

A good method to find yourself and know yourself… your core

Updated: A Time To Give Thanks. But To Who? For What? Mundane Or Significant? Habit And Duty Or Privilege?

Thanksgiving_bountyI wrote this article five years ago. Sometimes the way to get ahead is to go back five years and start from there. Recently the readership of this blog has changed, not to my liking. I’d like to return to … Continue reading

View article – 

Updated: A Time To Give Thanks. But To Who? For What? Mundane Or Significant? Habit And Duty Or Privilege?

Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results speak for themselves.

How do you cook frogs? You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it. The … Continue reading

Jump to original: 

Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results speak for themselves.

Astute, foggy, clueless… how many distinct things can you tell apart?

AstuteSo far 46 people read the article about the exercise for self love. One of them actually did what I did, followed my example, and wrote to me about his experience. He is astute. So what did the rest of … Continue reading

Visit site – 

Astute, foggy, clueless… how many distinct things can you tell apart?

Will your cultural predicament to be powerless, feel powerless, fail you in becoming a human being?

Another issue that has been driven up by the “Gate of Heaven” workshop is this: In certain cultures women are told they are inferior. They are supposed to be pretty, but not smart. They are property: they are treated as … Continue reading

More here:  

Will your cultural predicament to be powerless, feel powerless, fail you in becoming a human being?

Can you learn the skill of negotiation?

negotiation-skills-mapWhat is the relationship between skills, learning new skills, and capacities? All my life I have been puzzled why perfectly normal people fail at even understanding concepts from certain things, like distinctions, from communication, negotiation, empathy, caring, team work, leadership, … Continue reading

Jump to original: 

Can you learn the skill of negotiation?

DNA capacity: Deserving… Being Deserving

bing deservingSome 12 years ago I was in a training program to lead introductory seminars… in essence sell a program in live 3-hour seminars. The woman who trained us had a steady 80% effectiveness, meaning out of every 10 people, 8 … Continue reading

More:

DNA capacity: Deserving… Being Deserving

As long as you are stuck, no new capacities will be working… Cinematherapy anyone?

movie-for-growthMost people are stuck… movement is not possible. It can be total or it can be partial. To see where you are stuck is difficult, because the cause, the stuck part can be several layers deep. A skilled coach or … Continue reading

Taken from: 

As long as you are stuck, no new capacities will be working… Cinematherapy anyone?

Connecting to Source your way… what are you connecting to?

what are you connecting to?I think we humans are alternating between two extremes: being slavish, and being arrogant. Either extreme is detrimental to your growth as a person. I have been in an email exchange with a woman who tries to connect every day, … Continue reading

From: 

Connecting to Source your way… what are you connecting to?