Author: Sophie

If you don’t take feedback well, you need to grow up and get cracking.

You need to get better, maybe even good at it. So here are a few “memes” I picked today. When you distinguish something, the whole world seems to rotate around the thing you just distinguished, so feedback showed up everywhere. … Continue reading →

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Why is the “need to meet others’ expectation” so important, and why it’s a mistake to not honor it?

And how it doesn’t mean to please everybody, or even one person. You’ll see… Our language is so corrupt, it is hard to find a person who means what they say… I mean the words. You’ll see what meeting others’ … Continue reading →

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Misweighing Bias… are you penny wise and dollar foolish?

It’s Tuesday and I just got back from my exercise class. It was full today. Everyone was in post-holiday mode, except a few people. I had a conversation with a woman, and had a chance to see how certain words, … Continue reading →

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Some insights on health, and why things are the way they are, and why different people need different diets

Some insights on health, and why things are the way they are, and why are people different in their needs… Yesterday I spent three hours to listen to Dr. Joel Wallach. I think I have spent, to date, about a … Continue reading →

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How to Win BIG if You’re a Millennial. Or a human… for that matter, whenever you were born.

This is famed ad writer, Roy William’s article, but I know you should read it… You don’t feel you need it, but if you can turn around and actually need it, and follow what it teaches, it will make you … Continue reading →

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What is it that doesn’t allow you to learn that you have been wrong?

The biggest issue is not what you have. The biggest issue is how you use it. I get a lot of emails. People want better health. People want more money. People want to make a difference. People want to have … Continue reading →

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How your past self is creating your future and what you can do about it

There is a Landmark Education distinction that no one gets… It has a huge overlap with the distinction “you live in a world of your own design”. This, the “you live in a world of your own design” is somewhat … Continue reading →

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Cynicism, resignation, feeling your feelings… turn your resistance into flow

Somebody said that being in the 900s, I must be in the flow. I felt that what she meant and what it means are very different. Most of what is termed “flow” is a feeling that everything is OK… That … Continue reading →

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Love is not a feeling. Love is generosity. Allowing the other to fulfill their needs while you are fulfilling your own

This article is not about the “love” you, or Wikipedia call love… it’s about another love… What we customarily call love is a “hardware-based need”, the need to make our genes to survive in some offspring. And some of us … Continue reading →

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How Visualization Can Help You Attain Results… and Why It Probably Won’t?

Visualization is a tool to accomplish what you want, but it can also be the tool to diagnose what you are not resonating with. Or a tool to get trapped in the desire trap. The ultimate clue as to what … Continue reading →

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