Author: Sophie

Love is not a feeling. Love is generosity. Allowing the other to fulfill their needs while you are fulfilling your own

This article is not about the “love” you, or Wikipedia call love… it’s about another love… What we customarily call love is a “hardware-based need”, the need to make our genes to survive in some offspring. And some of us … Continue reading →

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How your past self is creating your future and what you can do about it

There is a Landmark Education distinction that no one gets… It has a huge overlap with the distinction “you live in a world of your own design”. This, the “you live in a world of your own design” is somewhat … Continue reading →

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Out of sight, out of mind… the death of all intentions

A lot of years ago a guy, another participant stood up in a Landmark Education seminar and shared something that has impacted my life to this day. Here is what he said: “The other day I was lying on the … Continue reading →

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The most frequent energy leak that holds you back

I just realized that I left out one of the most frequent energy leaks, need leaks from the last article. And that is the minuscule pleasure you gain when you feel clever, when you feel you got one over someone, … Continue reading →

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Why do you have uncomfortable feelings? The answer will surprise you…

Meeting others’ expectation of you: the need and the controversy: how it has lead you to be the way you are This is a very important article. If you just read one article, this is it. Without getting this, what … Continue reading →

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They say: have desire. I say: discomfort is a lot stronger impetus for growth

What can you do to finally start to amount to something, start to become worth a damn? Increase the IMPETUS for growth. About 14 months ago I did something that started a whole new growth period in my life. I … Continue reading →

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How the whole science of humanities is standing on its head because…

I am continuing the “fire in the belly” concept from the previous article I am what you would call a “quickstart”… Although conation (Kathy Kolbe’s testing method, most interested in how you do things) measures something innate, like it’s your … Continue reading →

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Infantile will to power… or how you dampen the fire that motivates you to grow

I came up with the expression “top 10% of your mind” many years ago, when I was teaching the What Color of Your Parachute workshop. It is said that you only use 5% of your brain. But, of course, you … Continue reading →

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The hockey stick graph: your TLB score is on it… and you are likely in the 99%. Why?

Learn something and a whole world of learning opens up… I had the first breakthrough in my 67 steps coaching… Why only the first? Because most people do the 67 steps the way they do their lives: with their eyes closed, … Continue reading →

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If I asked you: how many percentage of what I say or write in my articles actually lands accurately in you? Books? Lectures?

If I asked you: how many percentage of what I say or write in my articles actually lands, accurately in you? Experiments and tests show that if you have the right attitude, high level of interest, and you are coherent: … Continue reading →

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