What is the difference between you and someone who makes good decisions, understands the questions and issues, and responds in a way that the response produces the desired result?
That is what smart is, right?
Month: September 2021
Your vibration and your world view… are you expecting to raise your vibration without changing your world view?
I watched an episode of House last night. One of the characters says to Dr. House: “But you are not curious!” The bells went off in my head. That’s it! That moment suddenly made it clear to my why all my work has been ineffective with you, why you haven’t become an Expanding Human Being, in spite of your good intentions, in spite of all my articles, activators, courses… Your fundamental view of reality hasn’t changed, hasn’t changed at all.
You live in a world where you consider yourself a thing among other things. Where you and others have the characteristics of things: fixed, permanent, unchangeable and unchanged.
That is your world view.
Transformational methods to get you unstuck
Or how to set the context to alter the story and therefore alter your actions?
Whether you know it or not, your relationship to life is stiff, inflexible, and therefore ineffective.
You look at things, always, from the same exact perspective, and therefore you see, always, the same old, same old life: good or bad, the same.
The Sideways Method
I have taught you previously a move, that can transform your reality, the sideways view.
What Is The Meaning Of Life? What Is The Meaning Of Your Life?
People need leaders. Need leadership.
“Most people spend their lives walking around with their umbilical cords in their hands, looking for someplace to plug in.”
Life for a human needs to make sense. It needs to have a coherent story to make sense. Life without a coherent story has no meaning, and a life without meaning is unbearable, intolerable.
People (you?) are in a continual search for meaning.
Meaning that changes with what’s happening is maddening, and confusing, and cause you to shrink. Instinctively and predictably. So REAL meaning cannot come from the outside…
The drama of your life: do you have a choice about that? Conscious Uncoupling?
As a conscious empath I don’t only check if an emotion I feel is mine, I also check the source of the emotion.
Sometimes it is a Dark Side transmission, but mostly it’s another person I accidentally connected with.
I have two graduate students live in the downstairs apartment. Two girls.
Every time I go downstairs with a package for the mailman to pick up, or to check my mail, they hear me: the old wooden staircase makes an unholy noise. That’s when they connect, and I have to feel their emotions for a little while.
Both girls have a big issue about boys… it comes with their age.
UPDATED: How A Sideways Glance is The Key To Raising Your Consciousness Raising Your Vibration
Raising Your Consciousness Raising Your Vibration
I watched a movie last night. I stayed up till 1:30 am… way past my bedtime, because it was urgent for me to watch it… lol.
I knew there was something very important in it for me to get… but what?
I had seen this movie, back in Hungary, 40 years ago. I have been fascinated with it ever since.
The movie is called “The Lawyer”
What is consciousness? What is vibration? What am I measuring?
I have done hardly any research for this article. This is what I teach, this is what I’ve gleaned in my 25 years as a coach, and a few years as a conscious empath.
Grammatically there is the adjective: conscious, there is the adverb: consciously, and then there is the noun: consciousness.
This article will mainly deal with the noun: consciousness.
Start making decisions right. Decision making methods. cost comparison based decision
One of the weaknesses people seem to have is not knowing how to make decisions. They have no method: it is not taught in school, and I had to learn the hard way, and I am still perfectly unreliable to make the decisions that serve me and my life best.
This series is as much for my benefit as yours: I am going to learn, test, experiment, and write about decision making methods as I happen to them. It is worth reading this blog just for that…
OK. Decision time… Gives you agita, doesn’t it? lol. Let’s make it easier.
Decision Method #1: Cost comparison based decision
The story you tell is your reality. The story you tell the story you live. Don’t like it?Change it
I am still undecided about making my posts public. I will not stop writing, because writing is how I do my processing, and I will never want to stop processing. But whether I will make it available, my most secret, most precious thoughts to everyone off the street, that is a question I am pondering.
I attempted to turn the blog into a members only site, and it failed. Once burned twice shy, I am not sure what I want to do… So while I am processing this, I will still write articles, or republish others’ if it’s appropriate, like this one:
Nine Voices, Nine Movies
Each of us speaks and writes without thinking. This is why so much of what we say is predictable. Do you want to be more interesting? Choose an unusual perspective and verb tense. A movie begins in the mind of the listener every time you speak or write. At whom is your camera aimed?
When an area of life isn’t working or isn’t working as well as you’d like it to, there is something that you don’t know
When an area of life isn’t working or isn’t working as well as you’d like it to, there is something that you don’t know.
Obviously, if this is true, then it’s true about every area of life… money, your health, your spirituality, your relationships, becoming a person you can like.
But how do you find out what it is that you don’t know… that if you knew that it would make a difference?
That is the question.
Many of those answers are on my blog but you have been only scanning… which means you are only interested in what you already know. Your life stays the same, and I am wasting my life, wasting my breath.
One of the major things that you don’t know is that you don’t pay attention…