Self trust… a linchpin capacity… or how do you develop yourself to be able to move forward?

bag-ladyMany of my coaching students are at a crucial point in their lives where unless something happens, they probably won’t move forward. Fear, unclarity, self-centeredness, belligerence… The main attitude is different. Not one person resembles another in what seems to … Continue reading

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Self trust… a linchpin capacity… or how do you develop yourself to be able to move forward?

Self-image: unless you see yourself doing it… you won’t do it.

 

Sounds simple, right? self-image means: how you see yourself… but nothing internal is as simple and as straight as that? The way scientists, medical practitioners, diet-cults, pharmaceutical companies work is called linear reductionism… and it is a cognitive bias. A … Continue reading

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How do you see yourself? how accurate is your self-image?

skiff ... are you in sync or out of sync with your self image?The inner view and the outer view of who you are are vastly different. Your chances for success, love, happiness depend on the accuracy of your self-image. Do you know that people see you differently than you see yourself? And … Continue reading

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FOMO: the fear of missing out… and other ways you are not living your own life

 

I first heard this new thing, FOMO in the book I am reading, Hooked… I started to read Hooked right after I finished 1984. The perfect order of things… Because 1984 is about the loss of Self… First loss of … Continue reading

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You are stupid and nothing and no one can help you, unless you get it

Im-sorry-I-hurt-your-feelings-when-I-called-you-stIf this article doesn’t apply to you, then I hope you are intelligent enough to know… Just please know, that 90% of the people it applies to will also think: “This doesn’t apply to me”. lol… not funny. For context, … Continue reading

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Knowledge is power… but not all knowledge

the-only-thing-worse-than-being-blind-is-havingPeople want to become the person they are in their dreams… They are not that way… obviously. Becoming that person is like being a Michelangelo at the stone quarry looking at a block of marble and seeing if the sculpture … Continue reading

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Live like a White Peacock… do things for the love of doing things…

side-peacockI love reading. My favorite books tear down the proverbial curtain of the Wizard of Oz. And my favorite activities… you could guess, are when I can tear down the curtain… and actually show the naked reality of things… I … Continue reading

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Energy healing, coaching, nutritional consulting: what do they all have in common?

 

Yesterday I had an “energy healer” type of person on the Open Mic aka Talk to Me webinar. Normally these webinars are really fun: we talk. Students ask questions, some great, some simple and to the point… they have fun, … Continue reading

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Energy healing, coaching, nutritional consulting: what do they all have in common?

Pleasure seeking behavior… or more aptly let’s call it: avoiding pain behavior

no-fun-signThere are two kinds of pleasure. Pleasure that is immediate, impulsive, and requires no or little sustained effort and Pleasure that is the result of work… sustained effort. No matter what pleasure you seek, what makes it pleasure is the … Continue reading

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When the guru is wrong…

crazy-bald-guruGurus are wrong too. When a guru is willing to admit to having been wrong, a whole world of learning flows from that act of courage, that act of grace. I have made a mistake and I had my learning. Painful… But an opportunity to grow. Continue reading

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