What you are doing now is not working. You deserve better…

What kind of deserving is in that title? Systemic? Extrinsic? Intrinsic? Systemic would be: you are on my site, you are reading this, therefore you must be a good person… also deserving? Extrinsic would be: you have provided me with … Continue reading

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What you are doing now is not working. You deserve better…

Next I am going to teach a course on how to learn. That is the most important skill you can learn

online_learning_moduleMy experience with you is that you don’t know how to learn… you don’t even hear what there is to learn. And only to the degree that you can learn that your life can change. Remember the famous saying I … Continue reading

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How to grow in spite of the ego

mind-parasitesWhy do I demand that if you want to be my student, you buy and do, religiously, attentively, seriously, the 67 steps by Tai Lopez? It’s Tuesday, so it was my doing my errands day. At the grocery store, at … Continue reading

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How to grow in spite of the ego

The most difficult capacity to master brings the most benefits… of course

validation invalidation bilocation capacityAccording to Malcolm Gladwell: life skills, social skills, winning skills you learn through living with people who use them. My mother didn’t have them, and my brothers, especially my younger brother didn’t get them… I did get some from my … Continue reading

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Courage: a paradigm away

nietzsche-quote-paradigmsI had an interesting insight yesterday: you don’t know what it feels like to have courage available to you. When you apply courage, it just feels like you are doing what you are doing, what you were afraid of. Normal. … Continue reading

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Your desires… should you desire more or less?

desire accomplishI found a picture, a meme, that when I found it I had joy in my heart. Turns out I misread it: it happens to me dozens of times, that I misread something. The meme says: “Lord grant that I … Continue reading

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Your desires… should you desire more or less?

The distinction between behavior and capacity… doing and being

teaching children to be fakeA new student of mine writes: I think self trust is a big challenge for me, and building self trust is necessary as a foundation before I can trust others and build authentic relationships. I gain self trust by genuinely … Continue reading

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The distinction between behavior and capacity… doing and being

What you see will give you your mood, your emotions, and your actions… what do you see?

the-problem-with-some-peopleWhen I find an issue that a student is struggling or not dealing well with, I often write an article. The issue here, I guess, is universal. It has two parts: you can’t see the big picture, the forest, for … Continue reading

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What you see will give you your mood, your emotions, and your actions… what do you see?

Updated: Humility: What Is It And Why Should You Have It? Is Being Humble Meek? Powerless? Stupid? Get Ready To Be Surprised!

humilitySometimes guidance comes from a student or client request. Today I heard from a long time client who never managed to go from a to be… despite of the many courses she came to. She had a difficult time accessing … Continue reading

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Updated: Humility: What Is It And Why Should You Have It? Is Being Humble Meek? Powerless? Stupid? Get Ready To Be Surprised!

When you are looking for and find things to be unhappy about… always angry…

I have a student who seems to be looking for reasons to be unhappy, angry, frustrated. And not surprisingly she finds something. Always. She is working on her health and well-being, and part of that is to document every breakfast, … Continue reading

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