Internal and external barriers to growth, changing, success, the good life

Is that a distraction? Does that get me closer to my target? One of the big issue I see with people is this: You have big desires… but you don’t consider doing the things you have to do to attain … Continue reading

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Internal and external barriers to growth, changing, success, the good life

Unwillingness masquerading as confusion, fear, and a host of other “symptoms”

emotional-developmentI don’t wanna…! You can’t make me… Nooo! We expect these reactions from children, but more than 50% of all soul corrections’ foundational issue is this unwillingness, this resistance. If you remember, all soul corrections are, fundamentally, about restricting desireContinue reading

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Unwillingness masquerading as confusion, fear, and a host of other “symptoms”

There is laziness and then there is lazy-ness. Is lazy learned helplessness?

lazy-vs-learned-helplessnessThis laziness thing came up again today. During shopping. Is a fruit bowl worth the extra $3? It was 9.95, and it’s now 12.95… she says, and I have no idea how to answer. She has no idea what the … Continue reading

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There is laziness and then there is lazy-ness. Is lazy learned helplessness?

A great video training on how to build success in your relationships… I really love this one.

relationships-performanceYou can’t build a pyramid without a foundation (even if you’re in the alien school of pyramid construction!) So, what is the foundation of your pyramid? In our conversations a pyramid will be a code word for your vibration, for … Continue reading

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How to begin to raise your awareness

the-appeal-of-unplugging-10-638I just had an insight. Most people can’t see anything that they don’t see as a matter of fact, all the time. But seeing what you have always seen is not useful. Most people are on this site because they … Continue reading

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Will your cultural predicament to be powerless, feel powerless, fail you in becoming a human being?

Another issue that has been driven up by the “Gate of Heaven” workshop is this: In certain cultures women are told they are inferior. They are supposed to be pretty, but not smart. They are property: they are treated as … Continue reading

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Will your cultural predicament to be powerless, feel powerless, fail you in becoming a human being?

Life skills, capacity, talent, desire, ambition, greed defined… can you manifest with what you have?

life-skillsOK… this is the continuation of the WWII article… In that I talk about Hitler and look at what was the issue that caused him losing the war in Russia… So I am repeating what I said there… Hitler: 10 … Continue reading

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Life skills, capacity, talent, desire, ambition, greed defined… can you manifest with what you have?

The role of half truths in no evolution of the human race

bullshitAs I am dealing with the issue of courage, I realized something that I had never quite seen before: All the quotes, all the memes, all the nice sayings on the internet have one function only: to make you stay … Continue reading

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What you see will give you your mood, your emotions, and your actions… what do you see?

the-problem-with-some-peopleWhen I find an issue that a student is struggling or not dealing well with, I often write an article. The issue here, I guess, is universal. It has two parts: you can’t see the big picture, the forest, for … Continue reading

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What you see will give you your mood, your emotions, and your actions… what do you see?

If you have a problem keeping your word… Consistently

Keeping your word, especially the word that you gave to yourself is a big issue… This article is digging deep for the causes and the solutions.

I am removing people from my Reclaim program, left and right, for inactivity. If you don’t have at least one written coaching conversation with me a week, you are put on the “to be removed” list. Why? Because if you are not doing the work you shouldn’t be in the program.

If you are not coming for the coaching… then I have a good idea how your life looks.

How you do anything is how you do everything.

This was probably one of the most shocking things I learned in self-development, right up there with “you think you see everything, but you only see what you have already seen”.

Both insights were upsetting, and started to break up the world-view, the mythical, magical world view, that “I can do anything I put my mind to.”
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