One of my ‘favorite’ practices is this:
I find out that I misunderstood something. It cost me to miss something. It cost me to misunderstand. And it always does.
So instead of getting upset. Or angry. Or beat myself up. I do something constructive.
I expand my cone of vision.
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The Gifts Of Complaining And Other Weird and Politically Incorrect Phenomena That Produces Dramatic Results
This article is about a counter-intuitive transformational technology you probably won’t find anywhere else… It is worth its weight in gold and it can make the biggest difference in your life, in your level of satisfaction, happiness and well-being.
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Trying to act like a Buddha won’t make you a Buddha.
I just finished a webinar… Before the webinar one of my students wrote an email to me wondering why I don’t lie to them before and during a webinar. Why I don’t say that it is going to be easy. That it is going to be piece of cake.
But it had taken me quite a bit of time and effort to learn that trying to act like a Buddha won’t make me a Buddha.
The vulnerability that honesty requires isn’t something everybody can handle. So lying allows people to be comfortable.
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How true is your truth? Do you or your teachers have theory induced blindness? the world is still flat as far as human behavior is concerned…
This article is about the inner workings of a human… that if you get it wrong, the price you pay for the error is your life.
Is a human like a faucet assembly? When it drips you have to replace the whole thing?
…then your most important concern should be: how can I can more adaptable … right?
In you our relationship to life so you can have more chance for a happy life.
Darwin said that the species that is the most adaptable to changes will survive.
One can also say that it is true not just for a species but also for individuals.
Adaptable doesn’t mean meek, doesn’t mean able to subsist in suboptimal circumstances, it actually means being able to thrive no matter what’s going on. Adapt and initiate.
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For years I have been pondering what the Canadian government does that makes its constituency so miserable and feel so superior at the same time.
Today a little corner of the mystery lifted.
A client of mine, “Finish What You Start” soul correction, has written me a long message describing his feelings and his behavior of being taken off task, off focus by idle curiosity, sensation and excitement seeking, while he would like to be focused, calm, well… and among others: sleep well.
I recommended that he takes Lithium Orotate, an inexpensive mineral supplement, that has worked miracles with my clients who had a difficulty staying focused, staying on target, getting to sleep on time, and getting enough restful sleep.
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Who Perpetuates The Culture Of Abuse, The Culture Of Measuring Man And Woman’s Rights Differently? The Men Or The Women Of A Culture?
This is a controversial article. it will offend people. Rattle their. traditions. But unless someone speaks, nothing will change. I am taking on the risk to be that someone… When I see something, I can’t just step over it… OK, kill me now… lol
WTF are you talking about Sophie: of course it is the men! If women ran the world there would be peace… There would be love. There would be trust…
Wrong… please think again. Look again
The less spiritual capacities you have now, the less likely that new ones are willing to open up.
Especially if the new capacities would alter your being and behavior dramatically.
If you are a woman, you probably have fewer capacities than men, because in most cultures women are an appendage to a man. even the Bible relegate a woman to companion status. not a full person.
According to Kabbalah women are the vessel, and men are the channel for the Light.
The vessel is all about receiving, and the channel is all about giving.
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If LIFE wants more life, then Life and our DNA has a built in capacity, in the DNA, to see the big picture, both for ourselves, personally, for our families or offspring, and for the human race.
The direction this DNA is pointing is a society much like the Declaration of Independence declared: equal rights. Not equal results, but equal rights.
You have the right to procreate, but you need the agreement of your procreation partner… and that agreement, when it is guided by the DNA to see the different outcomes on many different levels, will either come or will not come.
Males of all species fight for this agreement… the female grants it to whichever male seems most fit to cause the survival of that particular species.
Except humans.
70% of women choose for looks and 91% choose for income… None for human qualities. Character.
Character would create an uncomfortable condition… where the women would have to grow… and develop character.
Human females are near sighted, and easily swayed.
I had an assistant some 30 years ago. She married a guy she met on the bus 20 years prior. The guy needed to get married to be able to stay out of prison… They married the same day.
The guy continued to be a criminal, a womanizer, and finally left her with nothing but the two kids.
She was surprised and outraged. She had lived with blinders on for 20 years: as long as the husband provided, all was well with the world, but when he took away the paychecks, she wanted him dead.
I watch the TV show, NCIS on Netflix. There is a character, Tony, who is a narcissist with no capacity for compassion or empathy. It is all about him and what he wants.
Women swoon about him. Woman consider his complimenting, flattering ways enough reason to like him.
Women like psychopaths. Psychopaths, sociopaths with no capacity for compassion, people with no capacity for empathy, the user of others.
Women are near sighted…
It seems that women need to evolve their big picture looking and empathy if we ever want to live in a world that is even a little bit interested in peaceful co-existence, mutual growth, peace, and striving.
Now, let me ask the question of nature or nurture. Are women this way by nature, or do they become like this, individually, by nurture, upbringing, ‘culture’?
What do you think? Please share your thoughts.
And, please, don’t take this article personally… even though this seems to be the rule, I have a hunch, that at least some my readers are the exception. Some…
PS: this is going to be unpopular… but I’ll risk it.
Traditionally Jews had a way to choose who to marry by a Schidduch… organized matchmaking. Scholars were pared with rich merchants’ daughters, so they can continue their education. The result has been a higher than average intelligence for Jews.
Nowadays this tradition is largely dead, and all the advantage is largely lost.
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Why do women, why do mothers, hold you back under the guise of protecting you?
I always ponder why things are the way they are.
I ask why more than once, more than three times… I ask and look.
One question that makes me ask why a lot nowadays, why is it that certain cultures have most children live their lives in mother-child, and why do others let the child live, where they should move to, to become independent, in father-child.
I have a theory, and like any theory it needs to be tested and tested again.
This theory is this:
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