Summary: this article started out to be short and sweet and, because it is so important, became really big. The most important things are said in the footnotes, so don’t miss them. The article reveals what it is you need and probably don’t have, will never have, to become an Expanding Human Being. But it is good to know, at least you will know what you can and what you can’t… and stop deluding yourself, and others.
To celebrate that amazon kicked me out, I am offering a 2 for 1 on all my remedies… until further notice. Go to the special site I made….
Tag: effortless abundance
Rules of engagement on the horizontal plane
I like French movies. For the most part they are off-kilter, and not obvious. Which means that they may not come from the mind, they may not come from the horizontal.
But, from time to time, they slip through a movie that pushes the band wagon, pushes the societal conspiracy to enslave you.
The movie that has been coming up in my mind with a sense of urgency, is the movie “My Best Friend”.
That is a move where the main character, an art dealer, forced, by a bet, to befriend someone.
Who is running your life, the entrepreneur you or the accountant you?
Just like a company, shrinking looks like a good way to increase profitability.
But business may be (it isn’t) about profitability, but life isn’t.
When someone asks me what is the surest path to Expanding Human Being, I always bring up Bob the Butler. Or the quote and principle from the Neal Stephenson book: Diamond Age. Start living an interesting life. When your goal is not to win every step of the way, it is not to shrink to the size that you can manage, but to grow through trials and failures to the sky: i.e. an interesting life.
Why do some people get fantastic results from the activators or the remedies and others get nothing or not much?
Maxwell Maltz, the creator of the program and methodology Psycho Cybernetics, was a plastic surgeon. Plastic surgery, as a rule, is to make someone more beautiful.
Many of his patients, though, didn’t get what they hoped for. Everyone said that they were beautiful, but they could not see their new you, only the ugly that they wanted to get rid of.
We could say that they had a filter that allowed only the imperfections through. I think that this “theory” is more accurate than Maxwell Maltz’s theory of self-image.
Why Are You Attracted to Bad News? Unhook yourself from worry, fear, opinions
Summary: worry, fear, opinions makes us stuck in the future or in the past, and we completely miss the present, where life happens. At best worry, fear, opinions just make us miserable. At worst what we don’t handle in the present kills us… Either way, we miss life, we miss our power… What a waste
“Once, there were three kittens named Murry, Furry and Wurry…”
I’ll admit to fabricating Murry and Furry, but you and I both know that Wurry is often pampered and protected like a cherished pet. We talk about our Wurry and cuddle it. We share our Wurry with others, hoping they will choose to love our Wurry as we do.
Suck it up?
I used to have clients and friends that their biggest complaint of others was that they wanted them to suck it up.
What does it mean ‘suck it up’? It simply means: “stop complaining, and say “f… it!” and move on.
This seems the hardest thing for humans to do… maybe even harder than summoning the courage to be alone, to read, to stop overeating, or do some “real” work.
I wouldn’t be writing about this, if I hadn’t had a recent run-in with the need to suck it up.
As you may know, I am a new Amazon seller. I am doing that so I don’t have to depend on you, my dear reader, on my livelihood, and that I can tell you the way it is, without sugarcoating it, without trying to make you like me… spend money with me… etc.
Q-A: Can the Energizer be added to the Effortless Abundance Activator audio?
Summary: This question came up three times in the past 12 hours, so it must be on a lot of people’s mind: why didn’t I add the Energizer energy to the Effortless Abundance Activator audio?
Hello Sophie,
I would like to ask if I can come to Wed. Abundance Activator Meditation Class? I bought a whole package but don’t know if I can just come up like that or if I should of been there from the beginning.
Also I would like to ask if Abundance Activator can charge water the same way the water energizer does? Or do I need to charge it with both water energizer and then Abundance. I bought water energizer with harmonizer together and I know I can’t use both at the same time so I’ve been using one for one day and the other one the other.
Talk Back to me: on connection, on meditation. on other gurus
Summary: When you write me an email, you can expect that it is going to be published or ignored. Why? Because I am not your private coach and I don’t have to answer your questions… If I feel like it, I answer them publicly: that way your question and my answer contributes to others as well.
Hi Sophie,
Thank you for considering doing a meditation session for those of us outside of the EST time zone.
I woke up at 2 am for some reason this morning and decided it was a good time to try the meditations.
I pulled in many techniques I had learned from various teachers most notably Dr Alex Loyd (personal vibration: 200… big drop from last time I checked) from The Healing Codes. He had taught that in order to increase the effectiveness of his work, you had to roll the eyes up and back (something you reiterated in your blog recently), you had to place your hands on the top of your head in a certain way and you had to deep breath through the chest in a certain way.
Are You Stupid? Are you being stupid? Did you miss the point?
Summary: You may be stupid and don’t know it. The biggest breakthrough for a stupid person to declare that they are stupid. Why? Because it would force them to look before they act, talk, argue, say yes, or say no… Stupid is an attitude, not an ability…
So, what is the attitude of a stupid person? They think that they understand everything. They think that what they see is what’s there…
Koan: For you Everything is the same as everything else … except not always
This belief, that you know everything, is an entirely mind-based concept. It is based on something tricky: that your understanding of words, connections, contexts, is accurate.
You can be certain that those understandings are NOT correct. It is a childish and arrogant thing to think that your understanding is correct and that looking at other people’s teachings through your current understanding is going to give you an accurate view of what they are saying.
I’ll give you two examples, but before I do that, consider the saying:
When you have a hammer, everything looks like a nail… we’ll get back to this later.
Who or what is The Creator that loves you unconditionally? A breakthrough in context
Summary: In this article I am going to illustrate to you how something evolves, as opposed to being born…
I will illustrate to you the thought process it takes to move something from good to better to better and even better… There is no such thing as best in this thought process. This is the foundation of an Expanding Human Being: there is no limit to expanding, neither in the mind nor in the reality of the Original Design. And I’ll share the breakthrough we had in raising your vibration.
When I came to this country at age 38, I was much like you in a lot of ways. One of the thngs that I remember vividly is my relationship to improvement. If a product label said “improved”, my thought was “that means it wasn’t good before, and probably isn’t good now… so I won’t get it.”I still lived in the mind, and the mind does not like improvement, it doesn’t like change. If something is good, then it is good, no need for improvement… Bah humbug.
When I was an architecture students, I learned two things that became totally useful regardless of the field I applied them. One of these is what I learned from my famed History of Architecture professor: He shared that when he graduated as an architect, he went to work in a theater, instead of the field of design or construction.