Are you the gift, or are you the gift giver? Do “they” feel they need to give you a gift?

The-Best-GiftsI was looking at Christmas this morning and I saw something that I had never seen before. Your relationships can be described in terms of gift giving and receiving. For some people, in your life, you may be a gift. … Continue reading

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What are skills? I bet you have no clue… or you would be building them…

7-Skill-Building-Activities-for-your-5-Year-Old-Boy-1What are skills? Don’t feel stupid, 99% of all people have no idea what skills are. This is one of the secrets that make people stuck in the dead end job they are in… not knowing what skills are, and … Continue reading

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What is the button I could push that would make you do what you need to do to grow?

why is there no big red button?Today was my errands day. It is also the only day during the week when I talk to anyone. And as you know, talking when I have echo, someone who hears me is the most meaningful activity for me. I … Continue reading

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There is no secret, no secret ingredient to raising your vibration, to become an expanding human being.

PISA-math-level2012For those of you who have been making ever tightening circle around the secret, you may call it the truth, this is first a big let-down. A disappointment. But when you look again, it gives you your life back, your … Continue reading

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How, what you don’t know that you don’t know, is biting you… and you can’t see what bit you without help

youDontKnowYouDontKnowHow, what you don’t know that you don’t know, is biting you… and you can’t see what bit you without help If I asked you what it is that you don’t know that you don’t know… no matter how long … Continue reading

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What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

Oak-reedWhat else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility? In a recent article I pit reed-mode against oak-mode. I call one flexible and the other inflexible or stuck. But there is more to it. Reed Reed can be … Continue reading

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The process of going from hopeless to energized and in action: limbering up, becoming flexible

tumblr_maj85dFRq51rgl4o3o1_500About 50% of mornings I wake up depressed, hopeless, and regretting that I woke up at all. Why would that be? Because my view of my life is stuck in a particular vantage point, you could call negative. And those … Continue reading

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Meaningful life is what you want? Let’s see how you can get that…

meaningoflifePeople who have meaningful work, want to work more… they work willingly, study willingly, grow willingly. What could you do to steal meaning into your life? So you can have a meaningful life? The new year is coming. It is … Continue reading

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The most difficult capacity to master brings the most benefits… of course

validation invalidation bilocation capacityAccording to Malcolm Gladwell: life skills, social skills, winning skills you learn through living with people who use them. My mother didn’t have them, and my brothers, especially my younger brother didn’t get them… I did get some from my … Continue reading

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The real causes of success and the real causes of no success

galdwell1The majority of people, in fact about 99% of all people, live a life of quiet or not so quiet desperation. 80% of my readers also belong to that majority. I’d like to address this article to the 20% that … Continue reading

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