I started to read the book by Edward Deci, “Why we do what we do. Understanding self-motivation”. This is the first book, that I know, that defines self the way, or similarly the way I do… To become a person, … Continue reading
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Want to find your self? Express it? Be true to it? Be motivated by it?

What are you carrying on that weighs you so down that you can never ascend? Or climb the Tree of Life, until you put it down? Have you noticed that making changes, doing new things, going to places unfamiliar is …
Unless you learn reasoning, and thinking with your reasoning mind, you are locked into the reactive mind to make decisions for you. But real accomplishments, being a leader, and inventing something cannot be done with the reactive mind… but real …
What happens to what you give to people, after you gave it to them? We are told that we are what we eat… and it makes no sense… Because really what we are is what we can absorb from what …
I was looking at Christmas this morning and I saw something that I had never seen before. Your relationships can be described in terms of gift giving and receiving. For some people, in your life, you may be a gift. …
The hardest thing to navigate, at least for me, is to take myself out of the center… Maybe because of my
Why would I say something sacra-religious like this? Because saying what you are grateful only includes what you like. What about the 99% of your life, of people, of things, that you don’t like, or just barely tolerate? Can you …