Article is by Oliver Emberton Unless you’re winning, most of life will seem hideously unfair to you. he truth is, life is just playing by different rules. The real rules are there. They actually make sense. But they’re a bit … Continue reading
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Lovely Mind Candy: The problem isn’t that life is unfair – it’s your broken idea of fairness

Did you notice that I said what, and not how much? Did you also notice, that you heard: how much? Do you notice that people seem to say the things you already know? But you never noticed that they say …
I mean this article to be the first installment in a series. The underlying principle is the Anna Karenina principle The Anna Karenina principle The Anna Karenina principle is: good systems must meet simultaneously a number of requirements. All good …
Genetic determinism and the ego’s role in it. I could also have made the title: your horoscope and your ego’s role in it, or your
I watch, or better said, listen to the next 67-step when I have time, maybe even hours, to ponder. Commuting time, making dinner, doing the laundry are perfect times for that. Instead of what other people do, listen to music …
I saw something really important this morning. One of my students is planning to build a business that he can do while working for a big corporation full time. He knows what he wants to do. He knows why he …
Learned helplessness is a technical term coined by Dr. Martin Seligman. I don’t want to spend time with what he means by that, and how he came to discover this phenomenon… you can google it if you want to know. …