This is paraphrasing the famous Leo Tolstoy quote: “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” This is the Anna Karenina principle… As all principles do, it applies to many, maybe even all areas … Continue reading
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There are millions of ways to be stuck: people who move are all alike


The feedback has been great on the tough questions. So here is another bunch. Asking questions for the examined life… Great stuff. Do I listen to others? What do they have to say about that? Am I listening to how …
Developing the habit to look before you leap You have habits, thought patterns, beliefs, practices that guarantee that your life will not change, especially won’t change for the better. When you do a course, read a book, or talk to …
As you may know, I am doing my second round of the 67 steps. In step 13 Tai says something like this: if you are not happy, don’t throw everything away. It is possible that the unhappiness is due to …
Psychologist Daniel Goleman, personal vibration: 200, 10 capacities active, 7% truth value, talks about the flow as a state, when things seem to go just right, when you feel alive, and fully aware… And they say: it alters your consciousness… …
This is continuing the theme I started in my last post, looking at your life and priorities. This is a politically incorrect article… The footnotes are really important in this article, don’t miss them. Let’s take a near posthumous look …
One of my students wrote to me this morning. He said: Ok I finished my billing the other day but something I didn’t catch yesterday and this morning I got caught in my lie of not generating I relaxed. I …
Some capacities, especially the ones that are your main