According to Malcolm Gladwell: life skills, social skills, winning skills you learn through living with people who use them. My mother didn’t have them, and my brothers, especially my younger brother didn’t get them… I did get some from my … Continue reading
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The most difficult capacity to master brings the most benefits… of course

I wrote in the last article that guiding anyone, including yourself with the positive statement is the fastest way to misery… Positive statements, including affirmations, don’t define anything. The expression “strait and narrow” is brilliant, because it tells it how …
In this article I will talk about DNA capacities activation. Let’s talk about the failures, people where in spite of my effort, the capacities did not activate… Let me start with the accusations a commenter threw at me/us: that the …
I watched something yesterday that allowed me to have a new insight about the Irish. Note: this is not about the Irish, and not about the Italian, and not about the Chinese… This article is to allow you a glimpse …
The hardest thing to navigate, at least for me, is to take myself out of the center… Maybe because of my
As I am dealing with the issue of courage, I realized something that I had never quite seen before: All the quotes, all the memes, all the nice sayings on the internet have one function only: to make you stay …
I activate a new
No matter where I am on the capacities scale, or the vibration scale, I still catch myself, in certain areas, interacting with how things should be, instead of how they are. How you should be, instead of how you are. …
You have been choosing the shrink most of your life… and you ended up on my site with a meager number of capacities, hoping to get more out of life than you are getting. You have been choosing, consistently to …
Why would I say something sacra-religious like this? Because saying what you are grateful only includes what you like. What about the 99% of your life, of people, of things, that you don’t like, or just barely tolerate? Can you …