If you play to win, you’ll always play a small game. Play to win in anything. Win friends, and influence people. Win an argument Win a competition Win at cards Win a reward, a salary, a compliment to look smart, … Continue reading
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Wanting to win is a survival game. Low vibration, low consciousness

As you may know, I am doing my second round of the 67 steps. In step 13 Tai says something like this: if you are not happy, don’t throw everything away. It is possible that the unhappiness is due to …
I once had a boy friend who refused to have sex with me when I wanted it, saying that I was using him. When he wanted… that was ok. This article is a little sloppy, stream of consciousness… let me …
Life is a lot like a Freecell game. You make lots of decisions… which card to move, which card to leave alone. In a very short time when you find yourself with no cards to move… it is mighty hard …
I just discovered that the version of the Freecell game is “forgiving”, i.e. you can go back more than one step… “start over again” without a penalty point. This makes the game an even better modeling tool than it used …
Personal note: I have been in this transformation game for 31 year now. I never understood why “the human condition” was the way it was, why it was “hopeless”. I didn’t know about the selfish gene… I was completely ignorant, …
For those of you who have been making ever tightening circle around the secret, you may call it the truth, this is first a big let-down. A disappointment. But when you look again, it gives you your life back, your …
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