A day after the election, regardless of who won, your job is to return to what is YOUR job

 

It was time for self-reflection today. I am almost done with it. I have come to the conclusion that it is time to pay attention to what I can control, what is within my control, and give little or no … Continue reading

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A day after the election, regardless of who won, your job is to return to what is YOUR job

Life is a lot like traveling by train…

Life is like being in a train: you can look out on the left side, the right side, the back, the front… but it won’t change that you are on a train that will arrive to its destination, no matter … Continue reading

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Life is a lot like traveling by train…

The Pleasure Principle and winning in life

Psychology, as a science and as a practice has some tools: Observation and brain scans. But the problem with either is that the human element, the interpreter between what is being seen, their mindset, their attitude, their approach, is crucial. … Continue reading

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Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results speak for themselves.

How do you cook frogs? You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it. The … Continue reading

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Are you addicted to cute, to witty, to “profound”? It’s time to go on a diet…

cute-cat-picture010Faced with hundreds of links and too many choices, humans naturally gravitate to the easiest-to-process content, not the best. One of the secrets of winners is that in order to win, they go on an information diet… It cannot be … Continue reading

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Are you addicted to cute, to witty, to “profound”? It’s time to go on a diet…

How to get out of the trap seeing yourself as a victim?

quarterdoubleheadI once had a boy friend who refused to have sex with me when I wanted it, saying that I was using him. When he wanted… that was ok. This article is a little sloppy, stream of consciousness… let me … Continue reading

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Self-involved or self-aware? Centering is the biggest difference.

involvedbeingmeWhen I am looking at winners, they are involved with something worth working for… involved, as in action about. When I am looking at you, I see you being self-involved, 90% of the time. on how to live Aikido (which … Continue reading

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Your feelings are lying to you… or why to have a coach

Your feelings are lying to you Your fear says: don’t do anything… Or it may say: run… and you run. When you look at all the people you know, the ones that listen to their feelings are mediocre at best, … Continue reading

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If you have a problem keeping your word… Consistently

Keeping your word, especially the word that you gave to yourself is a big issue… This article is digging deep for the causes and the solutions.

I am removing people from my Reclaim program, left and right, for inactivity. If you don’t have at least one written coaching conversation with me a week, you are put on the “to be removed” list. Why? Because if you are not doing the work you shouldn’t be in the program.

If you are not coming for the coaching… then I have a good idea how your life looks.

How you do anything is how you do everything.

This was probably one of the most shocking things I learned in self-development, right up there with “you think you see everything, but you only see what you have already seen”.

Both insights were upsetting, and started to break up the world-view, the mythical, magical world view, that “I can do anything I put my mind to.”
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How could you acquire a growth mindset, the mindset of winners?

i-am-a-tenThe growth mindset, the imperative to grow is the main difference between people who live a life of quiet desperation and those who don’t… but… is it learned behavior? Can it be learned? Acquired? Attuned? Implanted? DNA activated? I have … Continue reading

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Raise Your Vibration: Connect To Source teaches you how to connect to Source (God?) so you can live your life’s purpose, get answers, more

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How could you acquire a growth mindset, the mindset of winners?