We all have it. Mine is devastation. It pops up when it’s most unexpected. Devastation is between grief and terror… squeezes a tiny drop of tear in my eye, no matter where I am, who I am with, when it … Continue reading
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Your homepage… The emotion you return to in the most inconvenient moments

I’ve introduced the distinction “not ready, getting ready, ready” in another article. If and when you look at your life through that distinction (remember, a distinction is like a hole you punched in the wall to look at your world …
I just had an insight. Most people can’t see anything that they don’t see as a matter of fact, all the time. But seeing what you have always seen is not useful. Most people are on this site because they … 
The single reason most people don’t want to work with me is this: I will rob them (attempt to) of their sob story. What’s a sob story? Well, everybody has one… It was born after an incident in early childhood. …
Did you notice that I said what, and not how much? Did you also notice, that you heard: how much? Do you notice that people seem to say the things you already know? But you never noticed that they say …
I mean this article to be the first installment in a series. The underlying principle is the Anna Karenina principle The Anna Karenina principle The Anna Karenina principle is: good systems must meet simultaneously a number of requirements. All good …
I watch, or better said, listen to the next 67-step when I have time, maybe even hours, to ponder. Commuting time, making dinner, doing the laundry are perfect times for that. Instead of what other people do, listen to music …