When people start working with me, the first thing they learn is that they are not as “good” as they thought. That who they are being is directly responsible for the quality of their lives, not circumstances, not “the other”. … Continue reading
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I got knocked conscious, I got knocked aware, and it hurts what I saw

What is deserving? Deserving is a comparison. Comparing value to value, a person, a performance, a thing. It doesn’t come with existence. In existence you need to earn what you get. Deserve it. Too many teachers focus on the doing, …
What is the connection between respect and appreciation? Both respect and appreciation are spiritual capacities… states of being. I am having a lot of insights lately. Of course, it was predictable: I am running an experimental workshop: it is driving …
Why am I pushing humility, the
You’ll hate me for this… but hate me as much as you want, this is why: Your integrity is shot. Without integrity nothing works. Sounds very general, and definitely doesn’t seem to have anything to do with you: you are …
I have been struggling to get through to this guy to be able to support him in using and keeping the activation of the
We all want to be loved. It’s hardwired, because being loved is the surest way to be fed, as a child, get sex as an adult, be promoted or helped as an adult. Its purpose is survival. The organism wants …
OK… this is the continuation of the WWII article… In that I talk about Hitler and look at what was the issue that caused him losing the war in Russia… So I am repeating what I said there… Hitler: 10 …
You can plan for survival, or you can plan for growth The most important difference, from your point of view is this: When you plan for survival, every setback threatens you with death, or poverty, or lack, or illness. When …