Closed door, closed capacity: that is clear. No traffic is possible. Open, that is a whole other ball game: the door can be open anywhere from 1% to 100% I activated the Unconditional Love capacity: the degree to which the … Continue reading
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Capacities are like doors: they can be closed, they can be open.

The knee jerk reaction is, universally, to want to fix what doesn’t work, what doesn’t please us. “It’s wrong and it needs to be fixed.” you say… This fixing thing has brought you more misery with every attempt to fix …
When I am looking at winners, they are involved with something worth working for… involved, as in action about. When I am looking at you, I see you being self-involved, 90% of the time. on how to live Aikido (which …
What is the connection between respect and appreciation? Both respect and appreciation are spiritual capacities… states of being. I am having a lot of insights lately. Of course, it was predictable: I am running an experimental workshop: it is driving …
If you had a childhood trauma… what is the best way to deal with it now, so you can grow? Some of you were abused as a child. Now, strictly speaking, there is no such thing as abuse in reality. …
The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what? But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself …
There have been a surprise side effect to fighting the mite epidemic: people are able to see if they are conscious or not, if they are awake or not, if they are in their head or not. Now, that doesn’t …
In our battle with the mites that are living in and on our bodies, we are in a losing streak. Why would that be? I have now spent hours meditating over that, and this is what I have seen so …