Feeling Left out… and you are scrambling or resign…

others bragging make you feel left out, less, inferiorWhen you become aware of your urges… a feeling that urges you to do something, mostly to relieve a tension, a pain, a fear, you’ll probably find this fear of being left out, being left behind. Urges make you do … Continue reading

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Feeling Left out… and you are scrambling or resign…

Information is like milk. It tends to go bad over time

information is like milkInformation, possibility, attitude, skill, capacity… they are all, in one way or another, are information, and they do behave like milk. They go sour… useless… bad. You may want to ask the question before you research, buy, ask questions: “am … Continue reading

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Information is like milk. It tends to go bad over time

How do you get an attachment? Why some people get attachments while others don’t?

jumping attachmentI have been watching, patiently, for understanding the differences that put one at risk of attachments, while others escape an interaction with the same person, without getting an attachment. After seeing enough people, and repeatedly removing attachments from the same … Continue reading

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Empathy… Life’s most important capacity to master

empathy-lifes-most-essential-skillIn my inquiries, I find that more and more capacities that I’ve assumed we all have, it turns out, we don’t. The question that has been puzzling me is why certain ethnic groups that were persecuted at any one time … Continue reading

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Empathy… Life’s most important capacity to master

The work of activation is a lot like sex.

The work of activation is a lot like sex. If you force it, it is rape, not sex. So when the going gets really tough, when you find yourself stupid, let up… allow yourself to breathe. It needs to be … Continue reading

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The work of activation is a lot like sex.

Clueless… why clueless people don’t see themselves clueless?

I am fineClueless When we say we are clueless, it means that we don’t know. We feel like we are in a fog where every direction looks equally bleak… we don’t start, because we want to go in the right direction. Now, … Continue reading

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More on joy, and how I am learning to have joy in my life

play-with-foodMy first foray, my first venture into joy or joyous is trying to figure out what joy is. After all we don’t know necessarily what words mean when it comes to feelings… do we. We, children, watch and learn… but … Continue reading

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Happy New Year! New webinar to help you grow one step at a time…

In January I will continue the weekend webinars. I am switching gears… and the next few webinars will be workshops. I will still work with each and every person, individually, but the structure will be different. In this free webinar … Continue reading

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Being worthy of love, being deserving of love

I-must-learn-to-be-content-with-being-happier-than-I-deserve-Jane-Austen-copy-700x525One feeling and one being that trips up every person in the Unconditional Love Activator is feeling and being worthy of love. Now, as good as the Unconditional Love Activator is, it is not able to do the work instead … Continue reading

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What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

Oak-reedWhat else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility? In a recent article I pit reed-mode against oak-mode. I call one flexible and the other inflexible or stuck. But there is more to it. Reed Reed can be … Continue reading

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What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?