Can you listen to insults to your family, your god, your country and be unphased? Can you watch death and grieving and be unphased? I am unphased 91% of the time. Very few things pull me out of the equilibrium, … Continue reading
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Can you be crying and be unphased? Does the White Lotus cry?

What is real thinking, as opposed to having thoughts, or recalling what someone said someplace? I have been pondering. My method for pondering is this: I play Freecell, so I am tied to my computer, so I must be sitting. …
An interesting phenomenon: people who have never had any spiritual
Some capacities, especially the ones that are your main
One of my jobs in causing transformation is to be an agent provocateur… to provoke people in my articles, on my webinars… keep on provoking. Everything that upsets you drives up some way that you are off… off from the …
If we were in sport, you behave as if the coach’s job is to come pick you up drive you to the field, and tell you what to do. What is coaching? Coaching is the coach making you do what …
Some days my work is to work through issues that you, my dear reader, especially students and clients will need, so they can keep their capacities I activated active. One of these capacities is self-trust. Self trust is not like …
Often (too often!) people write to me telling me that I am not supposed to get angry, not supposed to be stingy, not supposed to be on thing or another… Why? Because enlightened means, according to them, forever joyful, forever …
Clueless When we say we are clueless, it means that we don’t know. We feel like we are in a fog where every direction looks equally bleak… we don’t start, because we want to go in the right direction. Now, …