Is that a distraction? Does that get me closer to my target? One of the big issue I see with people is this: You have big desires… but you don’t consider doing the things you have to do to attain … Continue reading
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Internal and external barriers to growth, changing, success, the good life



The knee jerk reaction is, universally, to want to fix what doesn’t work, what doesn’t please us. “It’s wrong and it needs to be fixed.” you say… This fixing thing has brought you more misery with every attempt to fix …
Choosing Choice is: selecting freely, AFTER consideration. Matsa asks: hmm, it’s puzzling – if you never choose X, didn’t you, in fact, chose Y? My answer: are you referring to choosing sexual preference? Most people have the choice made for …
You live in a world of your own design. And you create the world with your beingness. We think that beingness is all good… But beingness is neutral. One of the beingnesses we are really familiar with is BEING judgmental. …