How to get out of the trap seeing yourself as a victim?

quarterdoubleheadI once had a boy friend who refused to have sex with me when I wanted it, saying that I was using him. When he wanted… that was ok. This article is a little sloppy, stream of consciousness… let me … Continue reading

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How to get out of the trap seeing yourself as a victim?

Narrow cone of vision and your health

Imagine having to find your way through a maze without seeing past the tiny circle a flashlight can illuminate? “Luckily” you only have to look at your life. Your health, your money, your love life. You ARE living your life, … Continue reading

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Lovely Mind Candy: The problem isn’t that life is unfair – it’s your broken idea of fairness

Article is by Oliver Emberton Unless you’re winning, most of life will seem hideously unfair to you. he truth is, life is just playing by different rules. The real rules are there. They actually make sense. But they’re a bit … Continue reading

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Your life is a mess… can you clean it up with consciousness?

challengedI was talking about the wrong turns one makes in life; you make them several times a day… To the mind, choosing between two options, and getting yourself into a horrible dead end is no big deal. Easy as pie… … Continue reading

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False starts, crushed dreams… if that’s your life… listen up

2722241211_22435b9bc0The allure to jump into doing is very strong. Or alternatively waiting… and doing nothing. But “They” say: without action nothing happens. Some say: take lots of action, imperfect actions. But no one is talking about looking, no one is … Continue reading

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The path to the life you want to live is “riddled” with distinctions. A hero’s journey…

Heros-JourneyI know, I know, I am riding this distinction horse… and no one is getting on it with me. But, don’t you think that you resisting it, or your genes resisting it… it is kind of telling? Telling of what, … Continue reading

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The path to the life you want to live is “riddled” with distinctions. A hero’s journey…

Food Allergy versus food intolerance

contact-dermatitisI have been suffering from intense acid reflux for the past three weeks. My chiropractor “adjusted” the esophageal sphincter now twice, but no improvement. Then I recalled the Billionaire video by Joel Wallach… and my blood went cold. What if … Continue reading

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Food Allergy versus food intolerance

Do you have an integrated life or a bunch of things you do?

integrated-lifeOne step in the 67 step program is to look what area of life isn’t integrated into your life… At first I could not think of anything, but then I had an insight: I started to look at what doesn’t … Continue reading

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Frustration… or pushing on a string

My dominant emotion is frustration. Of course frustration lacks humility… frustration is when you are trying to force your will on reality. things take as long as they do, people do whatever they do, and you’ll screw up, like everybody … Continue reading

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Do you have free will? Free choice? What is the ego’s role in that?

genetic-jail-sentenceGenetic determinism and the ego’s role in it. I could also have made the title: your horoscope and your ego’s role in it, or your soul correction and your ego’s role in it. There is a lot of different ways … Continue reading

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Do you have free will? Free choice? What is the ego’s role in that?