Why is it that you can’t tell if somebody is smart or not? You can’t tell you are smart… or not either. It is because in the dark all cats are gray
One of the most surprising thing in the world of humans is that humans can’t tell if they are smart or not. This error leads to lives that are not fulfilled. Lives that are filled with fear, trepidation, or on the other extreme: boasting and disappointment.
This is a horrible thing. Do you know what is the worst thing about me for me?
I bet you would not be able to guess, so I’ll share it with you.
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Mental Representation… an incredibly useful distinction and an incredibly rare 
I know, I know, I am riding this distinction horse… and no one is getting on it with me. But, don’t you think that you resisting it, or your genes resisting it… it is kind of telling? Telling of what, … 
When I owned the magazine I published for 10 years, I was looking to hire an assistant. One of the test assignments I gave to the applicant is to sort the stuff in a junk drawer. I gave them no … 
A new student of mine writes: I think self trust is a big challenge for me, and building self trust is necessary as a foundation before I can trust others and build authentic relationships. I gain self trust by genuinely … 
What is the real cost of not having The Sight and Appreciation DNA 
Before I get into the meat of the article, I’d like to share what happened in Israel during and after the War of Independence, lasting about 20-25 years. Most new immigrants lived in kibbutzim, and in kibbutzim, a kind of … 