The difference between feeling confident and being confident… or how you put your life in the hands of a liar

18ivtf2wqsap4jpgIt’s Christmas Eve. Strong Southern wind… unusual noises… and bouts of wanting to weep. WTF? There is nothing wrong with my life, I am not connected to anyone in particular, and yet. I muscle test if it is the Dark … Continue reading

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The difference between feeling confident and being confident… or how you put your life in the hands of a liar

More on why you can’t succeed alone

Babyblues - Darryl and Wanda2I just realized something: following an already established process, going step by step, is a whole different capacity than creating one. I am weak at both, but I am literally unwilling to spend my limited energies to create a process. … Continue reading

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Your feelings are lying to you… or why to have a coach

Your feelings are lying to you Your fear says: don’t do anything… Or it may say: run… and you run. When you look at all the people you know, the ones that listen to their feelings are mediocre at best, … Continue reading

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Are you the gift, or are you the gift giver? Do “they” feel they need to give you a gift?

The-Best-GiftsI was looking at Christmas this morning and I saw something that I had never seen before. Your relationships can be described in terms of gift giving and receiving. For some people, in your life, you may be a gift. … Continue reading

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Are you the gift, or are you the gift giver? Do “they” feel they need to give you a gift?

What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

Oak-reedWhat else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility? In a recent article I pit reed-mode against oak-mode. I call one flexible and the other inflexible or stuck. But there is more to it. Reed Reed can be … Continue reading

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What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

The process of going from hopeless to energized and in action: limbering up, becoming flexible

tumblr_maj85dFRq51rgl4o3o1_500About 50% of mornings I wake up depressed, hopeless, and regretting that I woke up at all. Why would that be? Because my view of my life is stuck in a particular vantage point, you could call negative. And those … Continue reading

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The process of going from hopeless to energized and in action: limbering up, becoming flexible

Why don’t you use the new stuff you buy, your new course, your new capacity?

1103382595902154989i3uvnxmcWhy don’t you use the new stuff you buy, your new course, your new capacity? What happens when you get anything new? Is it always good news? After all it’s shiny, after all it’s new… and yet… you are not … Continue reading

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In life you are either a nerd or you are a floater

watch the movie gattacaAre you a nerd? In life you are either a nerd or you are a floater. The two most important characteristics of a nerd is that they know what is most important to them, and that they love it. I … Continue reading

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In life you are either a nerd or you are a floater

The dynamics of getting stuck… Or why isn’t my life getting any better, in spite of all the things I do?

mutually exclusive outcomesWhy and how you got stuck? When you see that acting would make a positive difference, but you don’t act. When you see that if you did what you said you would do, you could… but you don’t do it. … Continue reading

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The dynamics of getting stuck… Or why isn’t my life getting any better, in spite of all the things I do?

The Law of Action

804e19bbfbc6720579ca50c1cbba25c3There is a huge misunderstanding that most of you are the victim of: thinking that you need to be ready to do something, that you need to get rid of fear or discomfort to do something. One of my clients … Continue reading

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The Law of Action