What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

Oak-reedWhat else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility? In a recent article I pit reed-mode against oak-mode. I call one flexible and the other inflexible or stuck. But there is more to it. Reed Reed can be … Continue reading

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What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

The real causes of success and the real causes of no success

galdwell1The majority of people, in fact about 99% of all people, live a life of quiet or not so quiet desperation. 80% of my readers also belong to that majority. I’d like to address this article to the 20% that … Continue reading

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Waking Up From your Employee Hypnosis, waking up from your passenger hypnosis.

minimum wage work ethicThis article uses a great article as the base by the Note taking nerd… here is the original… site seems down temporarily. This article is for people who own a business, want a business. The principles of owning a business … Continue reading

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The dynamics of getting stuck… Or why isn’t my life getting any better, in spite of all the things I do?

mutually exclusive outcomesWhy and how you got stuck? When you see that acting would make a positive difference, but you don’t act. When you see that if you did what you said you would do, you could… but you don’t do it. … Continue reading

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Locked in/Locked out… another symptom of scarcity thinking and how to return to freedom

yes-no-maybeOne of the phenomenon I notice with people is that they do not have moves in communication. This comes from the binary way of “thinking”… either or, one or the other, yes or no. One area where this is detrimental … Continue reading

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The most generous thing you can ever do…

the strait... the best analogy I could find for distinctionI wrote in the last article that guiding anyone, including yourself with the positive statement is the fastest way to misery… Positive statements, including affirmations, don’t define anything. The expression “strait and narrow” is brilliant, because it tells it how … Continue reading

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Cinematherapy: what does it do? It teaches you to feel.

Inner-Guidance-System2Movies with good actors do it better… American actors are mostly useless, but it may be because American directors have no empathy? And yet some of the most missing feelings I got from American TV series I have watched through … Continue reading

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As long as you are stuck, no new capacities will be working… Cinematherapy anyone?

movie-for-growthMost people are stuck… movement is not possible. It can be total or it can be partial. To see where you are stuck is difficult, because the cause, the stuck part can be several layers deep. A skilled coach or … Continue reading

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What is YOUR Dark Side?

25-quotes-make-you-lol-16-12-638What is YOUR Dark Side? Mine is, definitely, feeling like the only one who can be trusted. If I cannot be the only one… I am not even interested. Messiah complex… lol. Very funny. What I need for this Dark … Continue reading

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The spirit wants only that there be flying

You can’t win the bets you don’t make. You can’t win the arguments you don’t engage in. You can’t win without taking risks. If you look at me, and can see, you’ll see a person with severe dyslexia, serious holes … Continue reading

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