What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility? In a recent article I pit reed-mode against oak-mode. I call one flexible and the other inflexible or stuck. But there is more to it. Reed Reed can be … Continue reading
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What else do you need to know about the capacity: flexibility?

The majority of people, in fact about 99% of all people, live a life of quiet or not so quiet desperation. 80% of my readers also belong to that majority. I’d like to address this article to the 20% that …
This article uses a great article as the base by the Note taking nerd… here is the original… site seems down temporarily. This article is for people who own a business, want a business. The principles of owning a business …
Why and how you got stuck? When you see that acting would make a positive difference, but you don’t act. When you see that if you did what you said you would do, you could… but you don’t do it. …
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Most people are stuck… movement is not possible. It can be total or it can be partial. To see where you are stuck is difficult, because the cause, the stuck part can be several layers deep. A skilled coach or …
What is YOUR Dark Side? Mine is, definitely, feeling like the only one who can be trusted. If I cannot be the only one… I am not even interested. Messiah complex… lol. Very funny. What I need for this Dark …