If you have a problem keeping your word… Consistently

Keeping your word, especially the word that you gave to yourself is a big issue… This article is digging deep for the causes and the solutions.

I am removing people from my Reclaim program, left and right, for inactivity. If you don’t have at least one written coaching conversation with me a week, you are put on the “to be removed” list. Why? Because if you are not doing the work you shouldn’t be in the program.

If you are not coming for the coaching… then I have a good idea how your life looks.

How you do anything is how you do everything.

This was probably one of the most shocking things I learned in self-development, right up there with “you think you see everything, but you only see what you have already seen”.

Both insights were upsetting, and started to break up the world-view, the mythical, magical world view, that “I can do anything I put my mind to.”
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If you keep forgetting what you are up to… or if you keep procrastinating

The fear of losing sight of what you want…

You know what you want. And you want to march to it now. But of course the world doesn’t work that way, you need to sleep, eat, go to the bathroom, job, family…

Then opportunities knock. For some, opportunities for fun and companionship. For others, adventure, business, learning.

They say: don’t take your eyes off the ball… That turns out to be another myth that takes away your power to reach your goal, to get what you want.

Nothing can be reached by a straight line, except the refrigerator, the TV and your bed. Oh, and facebook and youtube… Even my site…

So how does this really work?
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What’s the difference between a DNA activation and self-control? Self-improvement, self-development?

We will take a look at the subject in the following article. It is a good place to start if you are new to the subject. There is a lot more information available for those that want to make a more detailed study.

Huge organ, played wellI said in the last article and I say it here again: We are all born with a full “Christmas tree” loaded with ornaments i.e. genes. Some of those ornaments light up, some of those don’t. The capacities that those … Continue reading

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You want money? Are you a producer or are you a consumer?

In my culture, it was self-evident that if you wanted more you had to be able to give more. It was also self-evident that without foresight what you had to give was probably not worth much. So people read books, … Continue reading

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Tool for self-knowledge: Mapping

get-lost-to-find-yourselfNot until you are lost, that you can start finding yourself It’s a lot like “empty your cup” in the last article… as long as you know, you are stuck with it… I watched the movie “Something The Lord Made” … Continue reading

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Osho: Self-knowledge is the most difficult thing – because you are scared to know about yourself

Yesterday I wrote about the “nut” that unless you break it and see what’s in it, your life will be lived out in the misery of duality. There is help available, here, because you need someone who is ruthlessly compassionate. … Continue reading

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About Quantum Jumping… again

Quantum Jumping Quantum Jumping is a technique. Burt Goldman calls it a visualization technique, but I call it a connect to all-of-it, a confer with all-of-it technique. A technique to ask a question of an alternative self of yourself, that … Continue reading

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Osho: Self-knowledge is the most difficult thing

Osho and self-knowledgePeople ask my why I discontinued the Playground. After all I loved that program… so why not continue indefinitely. Two reasons: 1. There were only four participants. But that is not enough reason. 2. The Playground is a knowing yourself … Continue reading

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How to reclaim your Self from the mind and why

bathtubtest1The mind doesn’t know who you are. The mind also doesn’t care who you are. The mind also doesn’t care if you enjoy life, live life fully, are fulfilled, or not. The mind is in cahoots with the world, with … Continue reading

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