The two styles of coaching, your chunky life, and what’s missing?

something-the-lord-madeThere are two styles of coaching (at least). One is like I did for 30+ years, the style I learned as an architecture student and later as an architecture teacher. You do equal or maybe more than the client. You … Continue reading

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Giving and Receiving… the whole story

give-too-muchWhat happens to what you give to people, after you gave it to them? We are told that we are what we eat… and it makes no sense… Because really what we are is what we can absorb from what … Continue reading

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Our ultimate aim is to become fully conscious and capable

human evolutionOur ultimate aim is to become fully conscious and capable as unique individual expressions of All That Is. This is very catchy… titillating even. I read this on a blog talking about the reincarnated soul… Barry McGuiness: personal vibration: 170. … Continue reading

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Your homepage… The emotion you return to in the most inconvenient moments

remove someone from your heartWe all have it. Mine is devastation. It pops up when it’s most unexpected. Devastation is between grief and terror… squeezes a tiny drop of tear in my eye, no matter where I am, who I am with, when it … Continue reading

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How to get out of the trap seeing yourself as a victim?

quarterdoubleheadI once had a boy friend who refused to have sex with me when I wanted it, saying that I was using him. When he wanted… that was ok. This article is a little sloppy, stream of consciousness… let me … Continue reading

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Narrow cone of vision and your health

Imagine having to find your way through a maze without seeing past the tiny circle a flashlight can illuminate? “Luckily” you only have to look at your life. Your health, your money, your love life. You ARE living your life, … Continue reading

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Do you have free will? Free choice? What is the ego’s role in that?

genetic-jail-sentenceGenetic determinism and the ego’s role in it. I could also have made the title: your horoscope and your ego’s role in it, or your soul correction and your ego’s role in it. There is a lot of different ways … Continue reading

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The 67-step coaching, the good life and your Soul correction

In my last article, I was praising Thought Experiments as a tool to get to the good life. But: in the area of thinking you are like a human who gave up trying to walk after the first failure, and … Continue reading

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If nothing has worked for you… you are still as stuck as ever

cropping-2Let’s look at the role of discovery in growth… your growth… if there is no growth, there has been no discovery. All the steps of the 67 steps program are nudges for you to discover something that you haven’t seen. … Continue reading

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Without distinctions everything looks the same as everything else…

if you want a rewarding lifeIn the old Landmark Forum, or in the old 4-day Forum, the old Advanced course… the course leader came in yelling: “for you everything is the same as everything else…” or alternatively: “You don’t know your ass from a hole … Continue reading

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