You can lie to yourself, but you can’t lie to me or The culture of “good enough” — time for rest or fun

d5b9d-roosterOne of my students wrote to me this morning. He said: Ok I finished my billing the other day but something I didn’t catch yesterday and this morning I got caught in my lie of not generating I relaxed. I … Continue reading

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You can lie to yourself, but you can’t lie to me or The culture of “good enough” — time for rest or fun

Don’t Pee on my Leg and Tell Me It’s Raining or how to become someone responsible

I borrowed that expression from Judge Judy, because I like it. But it is also perfect, because Judge Judy calls for responsibility… to no avail… Why? Because responsibility is a capacity encoded and dormant in human DNA… only a few, … Continue reading

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Don’t Pee on my Leg and Tell Me It’s Raining or how to become someone responsible

Can a spiritual capacity turn off ADHD-like symptoms? Procrastination?

adhd-like-symptomsI feel and I behave like an injured quarterback without my usual programs at my usual computer. And the big winter storm is here… so I most likely won’t get the new computer on Thursday… Eh, we’ll just limp along, … Continue reading

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Can a spiritual capacity turn off ADHD-like symptoms? Procrastination?

Hijacking the conversation… inside and outside

clueless but talksWhen I owned the magazine I published for 10 years, I was looking to hire an assistant. One of the test assignments I gave to the applicant is to sort the stuff in a junk drawer. I gave them no … Continue reading

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Did you have a long holiday? Spent a lot of time with family?

returning-to-the-dark-sideSome capacities, especially the ones that are your main soul correction capacities, are hard to keep on. What does Source have to say about that? There are different reasons. Reason #1: You need more capacities turned on before you can … Continue reading

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The role of structures in happiness, in achievement, in a life worth living

Dynamic-Tension-8705I am about as religious as a teacup… and that is actually one of the freedoms that allow me to experiment, to allow myself to be guided through torturous paths, to use my life to discover law-like phenomena, to read … Continue reading

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DNA capacity: Deserving… Being Deserving

bing deservingSome 12 years ago I was in a training program to lead introductory seminars… in essence sell a program in live 3-hour seminars. The woman who trained us had a steady 80% effectiveness, meaning out of every 10 people, 8 … Continue reading

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The difference between feeling confident and being confident… or how you put your life in the hands of a liar

18ivtf2wqsap4jpgIt’s Christmas Eve. Strong Southern wind… unusual noises… and bouts of wanting to weep. WTF? There is nothing wrong with my life, I am not connected to anyone in particular, and yet. I muscle test if it is the Dark … Continue reading

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Your feelings are lying to you… or why to have a coach

Your feelings are lying to you Your fear says: don’t do anything… Or it may say: run… and you run. When you look at all the people you know, the ones that listen to their feelings are mediocre at best, … Continue reading

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Power tip: locate yourself… in reality

emotional-guidance-scaleOne of the things that immediately de-fuses an explosive situation, being frazzled, stress, etc. is accurately identifying what is going on, where you are at. It takes stepping outside of the situation, looking at it from there, to identify what … Continue reading

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Power tip: locate yourself… in reality