How do you cook frogs? You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it. The … Continue reading
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If you feel you are losing yourself, maybe lost yourself… How losing yourself happens, and how you can live a life where you never lose yourself? This past week I had a lot of interactions: a lot more than usual. …
Complete and thorough It’s a behavior we mostly only know as “missing” in others. We see what others don’t do… and we complain. We rarely see ourselves not doing a complete and thorough job. Why? Because doing a complete and …
This article has three parts: truth in science, truth in growth, and truth in hindsight… There are two ways to “do” science: you have a theory, and you set out to prove it. You ignore everything that doesn’t prove it, … 
There are two styles of coaching (at least). One is like I did for 30+ years, the style I learned as an architecture student and later as an architecture teacher. You do equal or maybe more than the client. You …
I have been curious why certain things I could do, like certain marketing moves, but I am not doing them. Actually, there are quite a few things that I know I can do, and I don’t do them. What’s there …
The hardest thing for anyone is to allow things to be the way they are and allow people to be the way they are, without loss of respect. I have had to deal with that for at least 40 years… …
What happens to what you give to people, after you gave it to them? We are told that we are what we eat… and it makes no sense… Because really what we are is what we can absorb from what …
Few people are intelligent. Intelligence is a state where you can see the sameness, where you see that life has no boundaries. Of course it seems as if there were boundaries, but it’s an illusion… cells have walls, but it …