What is the easiest method to shift someone’s state of being? We already know. Children, when they cry because they hurt themselves, can be brought out of crying by directing their attention to something more interesting, more engaging. We use … Continue reading
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Doing your soul correction, shifting your state of being, toughening up

I lead a workshop on Sunday. I had knowledge, I had strategy. I executed it. It was sloppy. What was missing? I didn’t know. But “god” works in mysterious ways, the book I am reading has an answer that shows …
As you may know, I am doing my second round of the 67 steps. In step 13 Tai says something like this: if you are not happy, don’t throw everything away. It is possible that the unhappiness is due to …
When Tai asks you, what is in the way of you growing, and starting to live the good life, most people have a ready answer. An answer they are sure is true. And an answer that they had seen a …
Complete and thorough It’s a behavior we mostly only know as “missing” in others. We see what others don’t do… and we complain. We rarely see ourselves not doing a complete and thorough job. Why? Because doing a complete and …
I have been curious why certain things I could do, like certain marketing moves, but I am not doing them. Actually, there are quite a few things that I know I can do, and I don’t do them. What’s there …
What happens to what you give to people, after you gave it to them? We are told that we are what we eat… and it makes no sense… Because really what we are is what we can absorb from what …
The single reason most people don’t want to work with me is this: I will rob them (attempt to) of their sob story. What’s a sob story? Well, everybody has one… It was born after an incident in early childhood. …
One step in the 67 step program is to look what area of life isn’t integrated into your life… At first I could not think of anything, but then I had an insight: I started to look at what doesn’t …