…or behaviors that ignore capacities, or both. My soul correction is Forget Thyself… arrogance, and already knowing it all… so the biggest missing capacities for this soul correction are the sight, seeing the consequences of your actions. The second capacity … Continue reading
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OK, if you have found yourself not being willing, or not being able to do the practices, or keep doing them: this article is for you. I have been studying learning styles, thinking styles, teaching methods to make my teaching …
About two years or so after I graduated from architecture school, I was assigned to manage a project. A big one. A university in Oran, Algeria. I wasn’t assigned because I was so good. Looking back I was green. I …
When I find an issue that a student is struggling or not dealing well with, I often write an article. The issue here, I guess, is universal. It has two parts: you can’t see the big picture, the forest, for …
The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what? But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself …
Sometimes guidance comes from a student or client request. Today I heard from a long time client who never managed to go from a to be… despite of the many courses she came to. She had a difficult time accessing …
I just got back from my weekly errand, and I am clearly not ready for a topic worth writing about. So how about many? Just to tie loose ends… OK? Why am I sharing what I am going to share? …
You are making all the right moves, you feel on the top of the world, smart, dashing… and then reality comes crashing down… the game you were playing bottoms out: you lose the person you were charming says something like: …
Every success proves nothing. It can be luck, it can be accident, it can be smarts… you can’t be sure. I am an architect by trade… and all my life as an architect I was wondering if I was talented. …
On today’s Talk-to-me call I had an insight: I saw something I had never seen: You are out of step with yourself. The you that interfaces with the world is either ahead of or behind the you that you really …