Some people lie more than others. But all people lie… Lying by commission and lying by omission. Facebook is nauseatingly full of lies and liars. You lie to your loved ones and you lie to yourself. You lie because it … Continue reading
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This question is coming up with increasing frequency. You should ONLY activate a capacity if and when you need it, when you have a use for it, and it’s missing. Otherwise you won’t know what to do with it, and … Continue reading
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Unconscious Incompetence: the missing item Like knowledge, capacities are either conscious or not. When a knowledge, a skill, a capacity is conscious, you know to reach for it when it would be useful. It is like you know you have … Continue reading
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How to make your new DNA activated capacity actually work for you
OK, if you have found yourself not being willing, or not being able to do the practices, or keep doing them: this article is for you. I have been studying learning styles, thinking styles, teaching methods to make my teaching … Continue reading
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I found a missing capacity. I am now clear why you are not doing your spiritual work
When you have a success, when you have even had a successful life, people ask you what you attribute it to. What was responsible for your success. They ask you so they can learn from you. But… it is hard … Continue reading
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It’s even obvious to you that allowing is missing… But how do you activate the capacity of allowing, and then how do you make the capacity a working skill? Allowing is what’s between you and serenity. I don’t mean happiness, … Continue reading
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I have ten unfinished articles on my desktop. It doesn’t feel I have enough to say in any of them to make them a real article.
This one is starting out the same way, to become an unfinished article. I don’t know what to say. I don’t know how to make it a good article.
The base of this article an insight I had just now, five minutes ago.
The situation was: I have been screwing up everything I touched today. Watch my language, by the way.
So, I told myself: “Don’t be a jumping jack. Look before you leap.”
I closed my eyes, and I heard the little voice say: “I don’t know what to look at!” Whiny tone, imagine a 3 year old saying it.
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Keeping your word, especially the word that you gave to yourself is a big issue… This article is digging deep for the causes and the solutions.
I am removing people from my Reclaim program, left and right, for inactivity. If you don’t have at least one written coaching conversation with me a week, you are put on the “to be removed” list. Why? Because if you are not doing the work you shouldn’t be in the program.
If you are not coming for the coaching… then I have a good idea how your life looks.
This was probably one of the most shocking things I learned in self-development, right up there with “you think you see everything, but you only see what you have already seen”.
Both insights were upsetting, and started to break up the world-view, the mythical, magical world view, that “I can do anything I put my mind to.”
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Everybody and their sister is teaching you to be in the present moment, to surrender to the present moment. I have observed people who loved it in Eckhart Tolle’s book, and now I am observing a famous marketer marketing an … Continue reading
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What’s missing from Rapid Peace, the Power of Now, and other books…
I just came back from my weekly grocery shopping trip. My driver has been struggling with a chest and head cold for weeks now. One of my students has been missing classes because of a cold that now moved into … Continue reading
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